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Memoirs tell important stories.
Harriet Jacobs, whose memoir was the first book-length autobiography written by a formerly enslaved African American woman, died in...

pennyalexlane
Mar 9, 20231 min read


Surprise benefits of writing a memoir
I began writing my memoir because it was something I had always wanted to do, and I was running out of excuses not to. I didn't write it...

pennyalexlane
Mar 8, 20232 min read


Opening the door for others starts with yourself
“When you open a door for yourself, you sometimes open a door for others.” We need be to true to our own inner voice- what we know to be...

pennyalexlane
Mar 7, 20232 min read


My First Review of my upcoming memoir
Deep gratitude to John J. Geoghegan, bestselling author of HEAR TODAY, GONE TOMORROW, Operation Storm, and When Giants Ruled The Sky for...

pennyalexlane
Jan 30, 20231 min read


From Christian cult to Jewish Temple: Finding home.
I might never understand why or even how I left one abusive situation, only to blindly join another. Maybe the key is that I was blind,...

pennyalexlane
Jan 23, 20233 min read


My inheritance
When I struggle with less than generous thoughts about others, I often wonder where these thoughts come from. That is not like me, I say...

pennyalexlane
Dec 1, 20222 min read


Family secrets...
I used to think I was the family secret. The annoyance in the room that everyone tried their best to ignore to keep the party bright. The...

pennyalexlane
Nov 8, 20221 min read


Sometimes a person survives...
What does surviving trauma mean? Does it mean simply that we lived past it and came out alive? Does it mean because we lived, and perhaps...

pennyalexlane
Nov 3, 20221 min read


Good friends heal the damaged soul.
Being an unwanted (step) child is a lonely life. You learn quickly that you do not belong; that no one wants you around, and that no one...

pennyalexlane
Oct 19, 20222 min read


Mercy was not something I knew.
As many in the world celebrates Yom Kippur, the holiest day in the Jewish calendar, the Day of Atonement, a time when all vows to God and...

pennyalexlane
Oct 4, 20221 min read


The secrets behind the smile...
Frank McCourt said, " a happy childhood is hardly worth your while,” and yet it’s what we desperately want to give our children, even if...

pennyalexlane
Sep 27, 20221 min read


A childhood tale: coming of age or surviving a battle?
When I showed my husband this photograph that a relative recently found, he said "You look exactly the same." Only on the outside, I...

pennyalexlane
Sep 23, 20221 min read


Can't find an agent? Try a Hybrid publisher...
Hybrid Publishing Spreads Its Wings (publishersweekly.com)

pennyalexlane
Sep 19, 20221 min read


How do we support women's voices?
Not many times in our lifetimes do we meet someone who steps away from doing the easy thing-the way things are always done-to be part of...

pennyalexlane
Sep 15, 20221 min read
Hybrid Publishing: giving women a voice
After writing 74 carefully researched query letters for which I received almost no response and being told that no traditional publisher...

pennyalexlane
Sep 15, 20221 min read


What I never learned growing up.
I was raised to always think of others, never myself. Maybe you were too. As a mother, I am committed to the task at hand, toiling...

pennyalexlane
Sep 12, 20222 min read


Do Girls really need their mothers?
We are told girls...all children need their mothers, and we do. But how are we affected; how do we develop when we lose our mothers at a...

pennyalexlane
Mar 7, 20221 min read


Would my mother be proud?
My mother at her high school graduation, eighteen months before she had me, and two years before she died leaving me motherless at six...

pennyalexlane
Mar 4, 20221 min read


How do you find a long-lost friend? An ode to Roger Manne...
Back in the day, when I was a sixteen-year-old lost soul, in the small town of Jackson Heights, outside the bigger island of Manhattan, I...

pennyalexlane
Nov 29, 20213 min read
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